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  • Obama’s Next Executive Order?

    Chicago Violence: Silent March Memorializes More Than 760 Killed

    After Saturday’s march on New Years Day 2016, the 760  crosses will be placed in a vacant lot on the Chicago’s South Side.

    President and Mrs. Obama, with the eyes of the nation and the world upon the devastation in Chicago, the time has come to stand with courage and certainty to answer the question

    Will Obama’s next Executive Order  be to send in federal dump trucks, pick up the crosses  and destroy them because they might offend someone?

    Must your answer be the same as the mantra of your Presidency—a resounding “YES I CAN!  I’VE GOT A PEN!”

    Image: Residents And Activists Hold Anti-Violence March After Deadly Year In Chicago

    RESIDENTS, ACTIVISTS, AND FRIENDS AND FAMILY MEMBERS OF VICTIMS OF GUN VIOLENCE MARCH DOWN MICHIGAN AVENUE CARRYING NEARLY 800 WOODEN CROSSES BEARING THE NAMES OF PEOPLE MURDERED IN THE CITY IN 2016 ON DECEMBER 31, 2016 IN CHICAGO, ILLINOIS. NEARLY 800 PEOPLE HAVE BEEN MURDERED IN THE CITY THIS YEAR AND MORE THAN 4000 SHOT AS THE CITY COPES WITH ITS MOST VIOLENT YEAR IN TWO DECADES.

    ON NEW YEARS EVE WHILE THE REST OF THE WORLD WAS MAKING HAPPY there was a short blurb across the bottom of the TV screen on Fox News about your.….

    Silent march through downtown Chicago marks year of violence | The …

    www.spokesman.com/…/2016/dec/31/silent-march-through-downtown-chicago-mark…

    Silent march through downtown Chicago marks year of violence. SATURDAY, DEC. 31, 2016, 3:42 P.M.. ×. – / 2. Show captions. Showing image 1 of 2.

    INDEED, THERE WAS NO BIG TV NEWS STORY ALERT, THERE WERE NO PICTURES FLASHING ACROSS THE TV SCREEN, WHILE IN…

    CHICAGO — Hundreds of people carried crosses Saturday for each person slain in Chicago this year during a quiet march along Michigan Avenue.

    The 3-foot-tall crosses were each engraved with the name of a homicide victim. The silence of the march was punctuated by demonstrators who spoke each name aloud. Authorities say more than 760 people were killed in Chicago in 2016. There were fewer than 500 homicides in the city last year.

    March organizer the Rev. Michael Pfleger said he hopes the visuals of the protest along Chicago’s premiere retail street will inspire people to take action to reduce violence in 2017.

    “This is a Chicago problem,” Pfleger said. “The reason we’re on Michigan Avenue is because this is a Chicago problem. And until everybody in Chicago decides it’s their problem we’re not going to end it.”

    Before the march Kelly Fitzgerald Clark found a cross with the name of her late husband. She cried as her son waded into a sea of crosses and retrieved it.

    “WE THOUGHT NOBODY CARED,” SHE SAID. “I LOST MY HUSBAND IN FEBRUARY. HOMICIDE. WE DIDN’T KNOW IT WAS GOING TO BE LIKE THIS.”

    THE CROSSES WERE MADE BY GREG ZANIS, OF AURORA.

    “I JUST WANT TO TELL EVERYBODY MY HEART’S BROKEN FOR YOU,” ZANIS SAID. “I DON’T KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO BUT I DID A LITTLE BIT OF WORK FOR YOU GUYS.”

    After Saturday’s march, the crosses will be placed in a vacant lot on the city’s South Side.

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    VIOLENCE IN AMERICA IS A NATIONAL PROBLEM NOT JUST A CHICAGO PROBLEM.

    Chicago is just one example of Obama’s failed government leadership 2009-2016

    THE MOST BASIC DUTY OF GOVERNMENT IS TO DEFEND THE LIVES OF ITS OWN CITIZENS. ANY GOVERNMENT THAT FAILS TO DO SO IS A GOVERNMENT UNWORTHY TO LEAD.

    The chiefly black South Side of Chicago is in a Depression. The problems have persisted for years and have grown worse.

    In 2009 published reports, 508 Chicago children were shot during a 16 month span with 25 killed.

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    VINCENT J. BOVE On Oct. 6, 2009 I addressed the Chicago crisis with registered letters to President Obama, the U.S. Department of Justice, and numerous officials of Chicago and the State of Illinois. OCTOBER 6, 2009 CALLING ON PRESIDENT OBAMA TO COMMIT RESOURCES TO STOP THE VIOLENCE IN CHICAGO

     

    LETTER TO PRESIDENT AND MRS. OBAMA

    October 6, 2009

    President and Mrs. Obama
    The White House
    1600 Pennsylvania Avenue NW
    Washington, DC 20500

    Dear President and Mrs. Obama,

    Now that lobbying for hosting the 2016 Olympic Games is behind us, a more urgent task is at hand. It is time for an Olympian effort to end the bloodshed plaguing the communities of Chicago.

    I implore you to make the elimination of violence in the windy city a top priority of your administration. If we agree that it would have been a worthwhile investment to prepare the city to host the 2016 Olympics, how much more is the value of human life? We must work to find a way to save lives, reduce hostility, and create a national model for the “audacity of hope” in all our urban areas suffering the scourge of senseless brutality.

    So I propose that the White House declare a Stop the Violence Olympics for Chicago. As immediately as is possible, an organizing effort should be made on the same scale as would have been necessary to prepare the city for the Olympics. Resources from throughout government, private industry, and the local community must be brought together in a collaborative effort that will serve notice that violence will no longer be tolerated.

    In addition, a torch should be lit in the city and remain burning as a reminder and symbol to all that we are serious about bringing change and hope to the affected Chicago communities.

    President and Mrs. Obama, with the eyes of the nation and the world upon the devastation in Chicago, the time has come to stand with courage and certainty to answer the question “Can they stop the violence on the streets of Chicago?”

    The only answer must be the same as the mantra of your Presidency—a resounding “YES WE CAN!”

    Respectfully,

    Vincent J.Bove

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    The problems have persisted for years and have grown worse.

    Third World America 2012: A Country at War with Itself

    More Shooting Deaths in Chicago than in Afghanistan So Far This Year

    On June 25, 2012, the New York Times ran a front page story about the 38% rise in killings in Chicago. Most of the deaths were due to black on black crime. Again, Chicago has a lot of crime, and it is not limited to black communities, but the fact is that crime is concentrated in gang dominated black communities and in non-black communities where non-black gangs have taken hold. Gang warfare has exacerbated the problem:

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    The problems have persisted for years and have grown worse.

    January 2016 published reports, the Chicago Tribune reported that “nearly half of young black men in Chicago are neither in school nor working.”

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    Published January 01, 2017

    Chicago Murders 2016: 5 Fast Facts You Need to Know | Heavy.com

    heavy.com/…/chicagomurders2016homicideshootingsmurder-rate-chi-raq-police-…
    Chicago Police Department added a new photo (with red hearts).

    Published 10:24 pm EST, January 1, 2017 Updated 10:53 pm EST, January 1, 2017 1 Comment By Jessica … Altogether, 762 people were murdered in Chicago in 2016, police said. … Created on Chicago Police Department website. … The city recorded 3,550 shooting incidents and 4,331 shooting victims, reported ABC 7.

    The number of murders in Chicago in 2016 was the highest in almost 20 years and more than Los Angeles and New York combined.

    The staggering numbers led a police spokesman to call it an “unacceptable rise in violence.”

    Altogether, 762 people were murdered in Chicago in 2016, police said. The numbers have prompted some to call Chicago “Chi-raq.”

    Police are blaming everything from lax gun laws to anger at police.

    The latter contention is controversial and is sometimes called the “Ferguson effect.” (Sorry Jessica, the link to shrinks Ferguson effect is not a fact)

    How big of a jump was it? In 2015, Chicago saw 480 murders. The 2016 murder numbers represent a 57 percent increase over the previous year, the biggest jump in 60 years.

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    Jan 2, 2017 Facts added for the understanding of a reasonable person

    In August 2016, Illinois Gov. Bruce Rauner passed a gun control law

    The governor(R) and House Republican Leader Jim Durkin made it clear that the law is aimed at reducing crime in Chicago.

    In August 2016, Durkin said that 425 people have been murdered with guns in Chicago so far this year, and another 2,320 have been wounded.

    By Dec 31, 2016, 762 people were murdered in Chicago,  3,550 shooting incidents and 4,331 shooting victims

    The number of murders in Chicago in 2016 was the highest in almost 20 years and more than Los Angeles and New York combined.

    Jan 2, 2017  Just asking …. HOW’S THIS GUN CONTROL LAW WORKING OUT FOR CHICAGO?

    REMEMBER In 2009 published reports, 508 Chicago children were shot during a 16 month span with 25 killed.

    The problems have persisted for years and have grown worse.

    Just asking? How big of a jump was it from a 16 month span in 2009, when 508 Chicago children were shot with 25 killed.?

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    continued…

    The numbers come after years of violent crime declines in major cities.

    Here’s what you need to know:

    1. Chicago’s Police Superintendent Is Blaming Anti-Police Anger For ‘Emboldening’ Criminals

    2. Chicago Also Recorded Thousands of Non-Fatal Shootings

    3. More Than Two Dozen People Were Shot in the Last Week of December Alone

    4. Police Confiscated More Guns & Made More Gun Arrests in 2016

    5. The Recent Murders Range From Domestic Violence to Attacks on Business Owners

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    Chicago records 762 homicides in 2016, up 57 percent from previous …

    www.foxnews.com/us/2017/…/1-chicagos-bloodiest-years-ends-with-762-homicides.htm…

    22 hours ago – The city of Chicago recorded 762 homicides in 2016 — an average of two … Published January 01, 2017 … The bulk of the deaths and shooting incidents, which jumped from … The Associated Press contributed to this report.

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    Illinois has voted Democratic in the past six presidential elections
    So, It surprised no one that Democrat Barack Obama, who represented Illinois in the U.S. Senate, won Illinois in 2008

    The most unbelievable facts from 2012 to 2016 are…

    Illinois voters re-elected Democrat  Obama in 2012

    And, in the 2016  Illinois  gave their 20 electoral votes  to another Democrat Hillary Clinton.


  • EQ vs. IQ? Brexit and President Trump

    EQ vs. IQ?  Brexit the EU  and Trump is President

    How could the experts have been so WRONG?

    BBC The National Dec 4, 2016 10:00PM

    I watched the round table EQ vs. IQ. discussion (of three Canadian, Politico pundits so called IQ media experts?)

    HOW COULD THE INTELLIGENCE QUOTIENT  (IQ) EXPERTS ETAL. MEDIA AND POLLS HAVE BEEN SO WRONG ABOUT EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE (EQ)?

    Hmmm…. EQ vs. IQ.  Does IQ Beat EQ?

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    the bottom line…..

    DONALD J. TRUMP IS THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA

    EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE, OR EMOTIONAL QUOTIENT (EQ), is defined as an individual’s ability to identify, evaluate, control, and express emotions. PEOPLE WITH HIGH EQ USUALLY MAKE GREAT LEADERS AND TEAM PLAYERS BECAUSE OF THEIR ABILITY TO UNDERSTAND, EMPATHIZE, AND CONNECT WITH THE PEOPLE AROUND THEM.

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    Oct 16, 2014  While there certainly are studies that find EQ to have little value, and studies that find IQ to be essential, today Google Scholar lists over a hundred thousand studies on emotional intelligence (EQ).

    Oct 16, 2014 |The evidence is growing. The interest in EQ as an important construct is indisputable.

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    Dec 5, 2016 INDISPUTABLE, INDEED,  BREXIT THE EU AND  TRUMP IS  PRESIDENT

    Emotional Intelligence, or emotional quotient (EQ)

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    BBC The National Dec 4, 2016 10:00PM

    THE BBC NATIONAL, EQ VS. IQ. DISCUSSION WAS SO “INSULTING” IT DEMANDED THIS POSTING ON MY WEBSITE.

    HOW STUNNING… HOW SHOCKING…. BREXIT THE EU – TRUMP IS  PRESIDENT

    BLAME IT ON THE MILLIONS  OF EMOTIONAL? LOW IQ?  UNEDUCATED? CITIZENS THAT  VOTED IN THE UNITED KINGDOM FOR BREXIT.

    BLAME IT ON MILLIONS OF EMOTIONAL? LOW IQ?  UNEDUCATED BLUE COLLAR,  DEPLORABLE IRREDEEMABLE AMERICAN CITIZENS THAT VOTED FOR TRUMP IN THE USA.

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    YEP… THE (IQ) EXPERTS ETAL. MEDIA AND POLLS WERE STUNNINGLY WRONG, ABOUT THE  MILLIONS  OF LOW IQ?  UNEDUCATED? EMOTIONAL CITIZENS THAT  VOTED IN THE UNITED KINGDOM FOR BREXIT.

     YEP, AND THE IQ EXPERTS ETAL. MEDIA AND POLLS WERE STUNNINGLY WRONG  ABOUT THE  MILLIONS OF LOW IQ?  UNEDUCATED BLUE COLLAR,  EMOTIONAL DEPLORABLE IRREDEEMABLE CITIZENS THAT VOTED FOR TRUMP IN THE USA.

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    ‘WHAT IS INTELLIGENCE?’ USING THE FOLLOWING DEFINITION:

    “THE WHOLE OF COGNITIVE OR INTELLECTUAL ABILITIES REQUIRED TO OBTAIN KNOWLEDGE, AND TO USE THAT KNOWLEDGE IN A GOOD WAY TO SOLVE PROBLEMS THAT HAVE A WELL DESCRIBED GOAL AND STRUCTURE.”

    SO WHAT IS IQ? INTELLIGENCE QUOTIENT. THE IQ IS A MEASUREMENT OF YOUR INTELLIGENCE AND IS EXPRESSED IN A NUMBER.

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    MILLIONS OF AMERICAN CITIZENS VOTED FOR TRUMP

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    OF COURSE IT WOULD BE POLITICALLY INCORRECT TO MENTION THE INTELLIGENCE QUOTIENT  (IQ) AND EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE (EQ) OF HILLARY VOTERS.

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    Is Emotional Intelligence Overrated? Forget IQ versus EQ – Six Seconds

    www.6seconds.org/2014/10/16/emotionalintelligence-overrated/

    Oct 16, 2014 – Framing this as “IQ versus EQ” demonstrates neither. At any meeting, any dinner table conversation, it’s obvious that these aspects of …

    GOOGLE SCHOLAR LISTS OVER A HUNDRED THOUSAND STUDIES ON EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE (EQ).

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    Scholarly articles for emotional intelligence. imagination cognition and personality

    … and validation of a measure of emotional intelligence – ‎Schutte – Cited by 2667

    SNIPPET 1996…. THE BAR-ON EMOTIONAL QUOTIENT INVENTORY

    1996 THE ASSESSMENT OF THE CONSTRUCT OF EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE EQ  HAS NOT KEPT PACE WITH INTEREST IN THE CONSTRUCT. There exist two scales described

    in conference papers, THE BAR-ON EMOTIONAL QUOTIENT INVENTORY (Bar-On, 1996a,b) and the Style in the Perception of Affect (Bernet, 1996), which attempt to measure the construct of emotional intelligence and have some validity evidence. The Bar-On Emotional Quotient Inventory is a 133-item self-report measure which consists of 15 distinct scales that were developed based on Bar-On’s professional experience and his review of the literature.

    1996 THE SCALES INCLUDE ONES MEASURING: EMOTIONAL SELF-AWARENESS, ASSERTIVENESS, SELF- REGARD, SELF-ACTUALIZATION, INDEPENDENCE, EMPATHY, INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS, SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY, PROBLEM SOLVING, REALITY TESTING, FLEXIBILITY,  STRESS TOLERANCE, IMPULSE CONTROL, HAPPINESS AND OPTIMISM.

     Bar-On (1996a) reported that the scales showed evidence of validity in that

    they correlate with several measures which are theoretically related

    and differentiated between groups such as individuals who rated themselves

    as high on personal success

    Emotional intelligence and the identification of emotion – ‎Mayer – Cited by 6783

    Emotional intelligence – ‎Salovey – Cited by 10154

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    Is Emotional Intelligence Overrated? Forget IQ versus EQ – Six Seconds

    www.6seconds.org/2014/10/16/emotionalintelligence-overrated/

    by Joshua Freedman | Oct 16, 2014 | EQ Business, Six Seconds | 40 comments

    Does IQ Beat EQ? Wrong Question.

    After 100 years of research, there’s little agreement on the definition of intelligence or how to measure IQ. Yet Adam Grant insists cognitive skill TRUMPS all, and “Emotional Intelligence Is Overrated.” His critique is wrong, but important.

    His latest post on LinkedIN is a follow up to his Atlantic piece on “The Dark Side of Emotional Intelligence,” where he warns it’s risky to develop emotional competence. For example, he even speculates that Hitler used emotional intelligence to manipulate people into a frenzy of mindless loyalty.

    Framing this as “IQ versus EQ” demonstrates neither. At any meeting, any dinner table conversation, it’s obvious that these aspects of intelligence need to work together. The ability to conduct complex analysis is hobbled (and dangerous) without the ability to connect meaningfully with other human beings. The ability to sense and manage emotion is nearly useless without the ability make meaning from rational observation.

    Traditional psychological research has treated emotion and cognition as separate, even competitive. The current trend in neuroscience says something new, and powerful: Thoughts and feelings are interdependent.

    Is IQ better than EQ? That’s the wrong question.

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    Emotions Drive People

    That said, in the human brain, no signal is more powerful than emotion. Emotion is a primary filter; it’s a signal of survival. Any high school teacher can tell you: Algebra can’t compete with love. As a growing body of neuroeconomics research shows, we make decisions with emotion, then justify those with logic. Obviously, we’ll do a better job in that process if IQ and EQ work together.

    Science is a process of mounting evidence. Grant cites a couple of studies to support his opinion, but the real test comes from hundreds. While there certainly are studies that find EQ to have little value, and studies that find IQ to be essential, today Google Scholar lists over a hundred thousand studies on emotional intelligence. The evidence is growing. The interest in EQ as an important construct is indisputable.

    In your brain, emotion has primacy

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    The Evidence for Emotional Intelligence

    This year, for the first time, a “big data” approach was used to assess the significance of emotional intelligence around the globe. Using a random-sampling process from a database of over 75,000 people, Six Seconds created a sample that’s balanced across age, gender, role and region to publish The State of the Heart Report. Assessing both EQ and performance outcomes (e.g., effectiveness, relationships, decision-making). The result: Between 50-60% of variation in these performance scores are predicted by EQ.

    While Grant says EQ is unimportant on the job, The Business Case for Emotional Intelligence and The School Case for Emotional Intelligence, scores of studies say otherwise. Perhaps more importantly, in real-world examples, in people’s daily lives, we can see emotional intelligence skills improve performance at work, in school, and in life. They predict career success, school success, classroom behavior, stress management, leadership influence, employee engagement & performance, plant safety, change leadership, employee retention and even life success for professional athletes.

    Even more, emotional intelligence is an enabler of cognitive development. Looking at the fascinating body of neuro-learning research from Mary Helen Immordino Yang and other cognitive neuroscientists (see Medina’s Brain Rules for a good intro), a new perspective emerges: at a neurological level, thinking and emotion work together. We don’t “think” with one part of the brain and “feel” with another; the process of learning is built into the very same neural circuits as the process of social-emotional interaction.

    Intelligence is built in the social brain

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    Is EQ More Important than IQ?

    None of this is to say that IQ is unimportant. In education and business we ALREADY focus on IQ. For the last hundred+ years, cognitive development has been the primary goal of education: we have seen IQ scores increase by two standard deviations over the last century (that means a “somewhat smart person today” would be a “genius” in 1915). This “Flynn Effect” suggests (a) that IQ tests don’t actually measure intelligence, and (b) that around the world massive attention is given to cognitive development.

    Growing IQ is helping us in many ways (creating innovations such as tiny computers that can be inserted into our hearts). At the same time, all this attention to IQ hasn’t solved other of the world’s most pressing problems (from poverty to environmental destruction to divorce to war). In fact, people today are more stressed, more lonely, and therefore less able to solve problems.

    Here in Silicon Valley, you can throw a rock and hit a building full of uber-intelligent engineers. These people are painfully smart – they graduated or dropped out from the top universities, they are only hired if they have good-to-scary levels of IQ. So now what? As Daniel Goleman explained in his rebuttal to Grant’s article (which includes a link to that piece), IQ gets you hired, but EQ gets you promoted.

    You need IQ to get hired, EQ to get promoted

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    The Dark Side of Emotional Intelligence

    While Grant’s LinkedIN post is deliberately hostile (promotional intelligence?), his Atlantic article has a more thoughtful and important point. Capabilities can be misused. So should we avoid these skills? The Taliban knows that educated girls will eventually overthrow the regime, so they suppress education to keep this “danger” at bay. Is that the approach we want to take emotional skill, or about any area of knowledge?

    Emotional intelligence is a tool. Can someone misuse it? Sure. A baseball bat is for play, but in the wrong hands… One can make the danger argument for any skill, but it doesn’t make it inherently dangerous. There is nothing inherently manipulative about understanding one’s emotions and using that understanding for better decision making. The only real path forward is wisdom.

    Intelligence is not enough. We need to apply intelligence with the discernment that comes from awareness and compassion. Our purpose at Six Seconds is to support people to create positive change. Change that ennobles and empowers self and others. It’s the essence of leadership, and it’s urgently needed. While we must have cognitive power, but people are not just rational: the missing link is emotional intelligence.

    Emotional intelligence is the missing link

    Joshua Freedman

    CEO at Six Seconds

    Joshua is one of the world’s preeminent experts on developing emotional intelligence to create positive change. With warmth and authenticity, he translates leading-edge science into practical, applicable terms that improve the quality of relationships to unlock enduring success. Joshua leads the world’s largest network of emotional intelligence practitioners and researchers.

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    How could the experts have been so WRONG?

    BOO HOO… WHINING… CRYING… SOBBING… RECOUNTING….

    HOW COULD THE INTELLIGENCE QUOTIENT  (IQ) EXPERTS ETAL. MEDIA AND POLLS HAVE BEEN SO WRONG ABOUT EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE (EQ)?

    PERHAPS IT’S BECAUSE “THEY” WERE ALL  SO PRESUMPTUOUSLY ARROGANT AND BIASED THEY DIDN’T EVEN BOTHER TO RESEARCH THE EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE (EQ) OF VOTERS?

    AND SO THE SAME SO CALLED POLITICO PUNDITS  EXPERTS,  CONTINUE  THEIR BIASED BLAH, BLAH, BLAH AD NAUSEUM BLATHER….

    DAY AFTER DAY… NIGHT AFTER NIGHT  ON EVERY PUBLIC TV STATION (INCLUDING FOX)  GLOBALLY AND IN THE USA.

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    the bottom line…..

    DONALD J. TRUMP IS THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA

    EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE, OR EMOTIONAL QUOTIENT (EQ), is defined as an individual’s ability to identify, evaluate, control, and express emotions. PEOPLE WITH HIGH EQ USUALLY MAKE GREAT LEADERS AND TEAM PLAYERS BECAUSE OF THEIR ABILITY TO UNDERSTAND, EMPATHIZE, AND CONNECT WITH THE PEOPLE AROUND THEM.

    ANY QUESTIONS?